{"id":4240,"date":"2018-09-10T00:19:01","date_gmt":"2018-09-10T07:19:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/?p=4240"},"modified":"2018-09-10T00:19:01","modified_gmt":"2018-09-10T07:19:01","slug":"the-virgin-bachelors-secret","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/blog\/2018\/09\/10\/the-virgin-bachelors-secret\/","title":{"rendered":"The Virgin Bachelor’s Secret"},"content":{"rendered":"

When I say I think someone is gay, I mean it as the highest compliment I can give someone \u2013 well, when that someone is male.  Gone are the days when being called gay means a limp-wristed, wimpy wuss.  When women want to give a man the ultimate compliment, they say he\u2019s \u201cgay porn hot\u201d\u2026which I think says it all.  So when I say that I believe Colton <\/strong>(the virgin) on The Bachelor<\/em><\/strong> will come out sometime during his season in the hot seat, I don\u2019t mean that as a slam.  I also don\u2019t believe he\u2019s lying or that there\u2019s any duplicity in him.  I simply don\u2019t think he knows \u2013 at least not completely.  He got awfully close when he told Kevin <\/strong>how \u201cit\u201d wasn\u2019t there with Tia<\/strong>.  \u201cWhat kills me the most is I\u2019ve done that my whole life too.  I make other people happy.  My whole life, all I want to do is please people.  And the only person I\u2019m hurting is myself by staying in things.  I feel like even with football, I kept playing because that\u2019s what people knew me for.  And that\u2019s what my family wanted.  And now I\u2019m staying in this because it makes somebody else happy.  That\u2019s not right.\u201d  Sounds like the door\u2019s creaking open.<\/p>\n

When he left Bachelor in Paradise<\/em><\/strong> in inconsolable tears, Colton gave a curious exit interview.  He never said, \u201cWhen will I find the right girl?  Why wasn\u2019t Tia the right woman for me?\u201d  He said, \u201cEverybody\u2019s got their person out there.  I wish I could have been the one to end up with her.  It wasn\u2019t there.  I just wasn\u2019t the person for her \u2013 I wasn\u2019t the one she deserves.   I just honestly feel there\u2019s something wrong with me, \u2018cause I\u2019ve never wanted something as bad as I wanted it to work.   I want somebody I\u2019m gonna spend the rest of my life with.  I really did give it my all, I really did try.  I don\u2019t deserve her.  I\u2019m broken.\u201d  You\u2019re not broken\u2026you\u2019re just\u2026well, you know what I think.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When I say I think someone is gay, I mean it as the highest compliment I can give someone \u2013 well, when that someone is male.  Gone are the days when being called gay means a limp-wristed, wimpy wuss.  When women want to give a man the ultimate compliment, they say he\u2019s \u201cgay porn hot\u201d\u2026which<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[18],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4240","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-breaking"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4240"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":4249,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4240\/revisions\/4249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4240"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4240"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.billymasters.com\/custom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4240"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}