Meanwhile Queen Latifah decided that after years of either denying it or simply not addressing it, it was time to tell the world what we already knew.  After being presented with BET’s Lifetime Achievement Award, this is how she left the stage: “I’m gonna get off this stage, but I thank you so much for all of you: the fans for supporting every crazy-ass thing I’ve done through the years.  And thank you for making Equalizer No. 1; Eboni, my love, Rebel, my love, Peace.  Happy Pride!”  Without too much fanfare (and just enough latitude to explain it away), she thanked her female lover, their son, and said Happy Pride – after thanking people for watching her show.  Priorities.