I’ve slept with my share of strippers, to say nothing of porn stars (and happy anniversary to my beloved Kurt Young).  One of the most prolific and successful gay porn stars is the iconic Jeff Stryker.  Recently, Stryker posted a throwback photo from 2007 in Provincetown with Bruce Vilanch and a number of others.  He wrote, “My Friends, I have a confession to make…I love Bruce Vilanch, I have for decades, No heart is bigger and no heart loves me more…”  Lovely, right?  He then followed it up with a comment, “Damn it Bruce, Don’t let Betty White come between us.”  Problem is – the woman between them was Rue McClanahan!  Needless to say, gay fans corrected him in droves.